room mate

I seldom and will never agree to have roommate (other than my family members) because I love staying in my own personal world...Whereby I can do whatever I want without any “noise”, “interruptions” etc..And I love “hygiene”. Those who “spoil” my room’s cleanliness, I will sure change to be a monster. However, this is the second time I stay with other in the same room. The first time was during my internship. I stayed with my course mate who I knew her for few days only. I stayed with her because I have no choice. I have no time to look for room during that time. That period of time staying with her really caused me angry and sad in the beginning. Then, I tahan tahan and tahan...Thank God, the months flew away...=P

Now is my second time stay with another. She is my hometown church friend. Honestly, we seldom talk to each other though we studied in the same school and attending the same church. She never has good or bad impression to me also. What I know is she is so “sticky” to Zi fen jie and too relies on her. Then I remember one day she had little misunderstand with me, Daniel and Proskuneo regarding the duty roaster on CNY service. This added in some thought to me regarding her personality. That’s all. After all of us grew up, I met her again in KL and I told myself not to stay with her. God is so humorous. He will put in those you don’t like to do, see, touch, experience into your life, like this… This one is better than the first one but sometime also make me angry.
When I angry, I choose to keep quiet and remind myself, “Reb, love her and train yourself.  Treat this as a training and preparation for your future marriage.” Ex, the thing doesn’t put back the original place, I put it?!?!?? Of course there are still some that is worst and make me angry…To be clarifying here, I will not angry simply, but how many of you know that my limitation is not high enough? Anyone keeps repeating the same mistake will have chance to touch my line also. Luckily, she will try to change herself and say sorry when she knew she was wrong.

 

Let me give you a clear picture with just one real story. Like today, I was angry because she love to set her alarm earlier than anyone...is super earlier oh...then she will wake up to set 2^nd time of alarm and felt sleep again..And keep doing the same thing till I wake up and prepare myself...She will wake up after I bath or earlier than that... What I angry is...why she love to set the alarm earlier than everyone seem she never plan to wake up so earlier? The answer she gave is, “I will ‘lai chuang’ so must put earlier”...But what’s the point if you put it so many “earlier” and then wake up set another 1 and sleep again, wake up set another 1 and sleep again , doing the same thing till you wake up at the time you plan for? Furthermore, when the alarm rang, she is not the one who wake up...I have to call her name then only she will wake up..@@ Oh my…you are so selfish leh...Can you please set only 1 alarm at the time you want to wake up only? It is useless for you to set so many time coz no matter how many time you set, I am the one who wake up not you… This morning, I did not talk to her because I’m in bad mood and she sms me. This is her “merit”. =) Then I honest to her and she replied me with “I will try to change it starting form today”...This is another “merit” of hers. =) Of course, I will give her chances to change…

Yeap, I am learning to “stay” with her and it is a must for me also. =) Pray that I will know her better and we will stay happily la. Pray that I have big capacity of gas as well.